Every so often I get an amazing story of success from one of the many women I am blessed to train. This one hit on so many levels of what we do every week at bootcamp. I just had to share Stephanie’s story with you in hopes that her story could inspire your story.
The changes that take place inside the four walls of my studio are far beyond physical, although that is why so many women sign up for bootcamp.
As Stephanie mentions, these changes don’t happen overnight, and they may not happen as quickly as you desire, but if put in the work, they DO happen. Thank you Stephaine for being so awesome. Thank you for working so hard to discover your worth and your awesomeness, so that now you can inspire other women to do the same.
You make me so proud. Thank for your allowing me to be part of your journey.
Big Love & Respect,
Christa
The beginning:

Happy Anniversary, Christa!!!
I recently realized that I have been working with you for just over a year, and I wanted to thank you for the changes you’ve inspired in me. I never knew how much my life could transform in a year.
A year ago, I was 35lbs heavier than I am today, but I carried far more than the weight. I was allowing personal and family issues, low self-confidence, and a general feeling that I was “past my peak” in life drag me down.
A year ago, I might have said something like “By this time next year, I plan to have lost 80lbs or more! I will be fit and hot, and back to my wedding weight!”
A year ago, I was bringing 3lb weights to class.
Let’s face it: a year ago, I was sort of deluded. I had seriously unrealistic goals, and the wrong priorities.
Today, I am not nearly as close to my “goal weight” as I expected to be. For awhile, I let that disappoint me, but today I know the value of the progress I’ve made, because progress isn’t always about the numbers on the scale.
So what have I done this year? OK, I did lose 35lbs, which is not too bad. That could be a far larger number if I had been making consistently better food choices in the last 6 months, but I own those choices and accept them as my responsibility. THAT is a huge change for me…but more on the food piece later.
12 months later

This year, I trained for and completed a sprint triathlon. My time stunk, but I crossed that finish line running hard and cried my eyes out after I did it. Because I DID IT. I never would have thought I could do something like that, and I did.
The triathlon was a great accomplishment, but there is something so much more important that I did this year: I reclaimed the best parts of myself. The things you pushed me to accomplish during class made me realize that I am amazing! I started looking at all the parts of my life and saw how much the “past my peak” mentality was affecting every other aspect of it.
Before, I didn’t value myself, didn’t think I was worth the effort, didn’t think I could do anything meaningful or important anymore…for my health, for my family, for my career, for anything or anyone. Now I’ve started carrying myself differently, with confidence, like a fit person inside and out. People notice a change, and they treat me differently.
Sometimes, when I meet a new person, I wonder how I must come across to them. I am still a heavy girl, and with my new found confidence I often forget that. When I tell them about doing a triathlon, or what kind of training I do in class and out, they regard me first with surprise and then serious respect. It’s a great feeling, especially when I know how hard I’ve worked to earn that look of respect.
It does still frustrate me that the way I look doesn’t match my fitness level. I am working so hard, and that is just not obvious to someone when they meet me. Because of this, I find I suddenly have no patience for people who say, “Oh, I could NEVER do that!” when I say I completed a triathlon. I try to maintain my “nice voice” when I respond, “Of course you could, you just haven’t decided you want to.”

I get even more aggravated when someone who looks very thin tells me that they never work out and they “wish they could do a boot camp class, but it’s so hard/they don’t have time/excuse, excuse/etc. etc!” After fighting the urge to slap them, I remind myself that I look the way I do as a result of my own bad choices in the past, and that I am on the right path to the fitness level and body of my dreams. I know I can do it, I AM doing it, I just have to be patient and keep working.
One of the ways I’m keeping myself motivated is through setting goals, and I felt like I needed another challenge to stay focused. I really love running–well, I used to love running and am growing to love it again–so I am training for a half marathon for next January or February. Because I can, so I will. And now that I am working toward that goal, I have to smile and bite my tongue when people say things like “13 miles?!? I could NEVER run that far!”
Being that I am this amazing person who knows that she can do anything she decides she wants to do, I have really started to examine other parts of my life. My career is a biggie right now–I just don’t feel that my job is one that recognizes and utilizes all of my awesomeness. So I’m in the process of working through all of that to decide on what career path WILL let me reach my potential. A year ago, I thought, “Well, at least I am getting a paycheck every other week!” Not any more. Not good enough. I’ve come to understand that I deserve more, and I will only accept the best for me and my family and our life choices. Sometimes, that means trying harder or making tough decisions, and that’s okay.
And now, to the food. My biggest challenge, always. I’ve been up and down all year with clean eating, sometimes perfect, sometimes awful, sometimes moderate throughout. I could beat myself up about it (and believe me, I have) but, when I really think about the last year, I know I have to let that guilt go. What’s past is past, and maybe I haven’t gotten the food piece right yet, but I am not giving up.
I choose instead to focus on all I have gotten right this year. I used to be just as “up and down” in my exercise efforts as my food choices and look what I’ve accomplished: I’ve regularly attended boot camp 2-3 times a week for a year now, plus outside training sometimes as well. It is 100% a non-negotiable part of my life now, and my whole family knows it. My husband, my kids, my dad, even my out of state relatives know that, with very few exceptions, on Monday, Wednesday and Friday, Steph has boot camp, and she rocks 10lb weights. It took me a year to achieve a no-excuses commitment to sweating profusely and often, and it was worth it. I am worth it.
This year, now that I’ve made hard, regular exercise a permanent and ingrained part of my existence, I have to go after the food, 100%. It will probably take all year, and I’ll have to try harder, but that’s not going to stop me. I guess I should recognize that I have made some good progress on my food choices this year…I don’t drink soda EVER anymore, having given up a 3+ can a day Diet Coke habit, and I’ve cut waaaaay back on sugar. I went from 4+ Splendas in my coffee daily to drinking it with just a splash of half and half. I probably eat dessert or other sweet treats about half as often as I used to. Not where I want to be yet, but better than where I was a year ago, and I can only keep moving forward.
I can only imagine what amazing things I will accomplish in my second year training with you! Because, even though I did the work, you inspired EVERY ONE of these changes in my life. Thank you, thank you, thank you for believing in me and challenging me to push harder and give 100%, both in class and out. Thanks for helping me see that there is no such thing as being “past my peak;” I just have to decide to create a newer, higher, MORE AWESOME peak to reach, and then work my ass off until I get there. I’m well on my way.

Lots of love and gratitude,
Stephanie